You must put a numeric value in each box. Do not use the numbers 0 or 10. The total of the three boxes must equal 10. Assign the greatest number to your first choice, the smallest number to your least favorite choice.

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3. Values Questionaire:

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| Example: For Breakfast I most Like… ALL fields required. |
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Bacon & eggs |
Waffles |
Fruit 3 + 3 + 4 = 10 |
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| 1. The personal qualities I am most aware of in myself are… |
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Gentleness & warmth |
Strength & capability |
Consistency & logic |
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| 2. Sometimes I am afraid others see me as… |
| Weak or wishy-washy |
Dictatorial or pushy |
Cold or indifferent |
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| 3. When someone expresses tender emotions to me I quite often… |
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Accept & delight in it |
Feel awkward & anxious |
I am unsure of how to respond & wish it was over |
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| 4. When someone criticizes me it's likely that I will … |
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Not want to deal with it & try calm them down |
Defend myself & tell them they have no right to do so |
Try to analyze what they are saying |
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| 5. When I am among new people I generally… |
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Am polite but wait for them to make the first move |
Am outgoing & take the first steps to get acquainted |
Wait for a suitable time to introduce myself or be introduced |
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| 6. I am most uneasy when I think people are judging me to be… |
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Harsh & uncaring |
A phony or showoff |
Distant or standoffish |
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| 7. When I am really at odds with someone I am likely to… |
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Avoid talking about the issues that seperate us |
Speak my mind & tell them exactly where I stand |
Stand back & try to figure the situation out |
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| 8. When people compliment me I tend to… |
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Feel uncomfortable & hope the moment passes quickly |
Accept the compliment in a joking way |
Figure out whether I deserve the compliment |
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| 9. When someone is angry with me, or becomes aggressive… |
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I cringe inside because I hate turmoil or getting upset |
I am willing to react to them & see it through |
I try not to overreact or get caught up in their anger |
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| 10. When I am really down on myself I see myself as… |
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Not very smart with very little to offer |
Inadequate & incapable of doing what's needed |
Disorganized, confused & out of control |
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| 11. When some issue comes between me and others I… |
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Would rather forget it & get back to loving one another |
Do not think it is good to back down |
Reconsider the facts & try to figure out who is right |
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| 12. I am attracted to people who… |
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Are easy to get along with |
Stand on their own two feet |
Take time to think things through |
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| 13. I would describe myself as… |
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Quietly involved in the background |
Dynamically involved in the forefront |
Rationally involved evaluating the work to be done |
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| 14. When I have to talk to my superior about something that makes me very uncomfortable I am apt to… |
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Avoid the conversation, or end it quickly |
Defend myself and justify my actions |
Proceed only if realistic talk is assured |
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| 15. In an important conversation I tend to… |
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Do more listening than talking |
Try to get involved in the conversation |
Listen and talk until there is clarification & understanding |
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| 16. I usually settle arguments by… |
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Conforming for the sake of others |
Dominating others until my viewpoint is accepted |
Using order & analysis to reveal the correct viewpoint |
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| 17. The thing I fear losing most is… |
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Respect |
Power & influence |
Self control & independence |
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| 18. One of my weak points is my… |
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Unwillingness to take a stand |
Temper & arrogance |
Lack of wanting to take a risk |
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| 19. I feel better about myself when I am… |
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Helping others |
Leading others |
Teaching others |
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| 20. When others want to help me I… |
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I accept the help |
Know I would be more comfortable helping them |
Prefer being self-sufficient |
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| 21. I make most of my decisions… |
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By trusting my intuition |
By my gut reaction |
By careful consideration |
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| 22. I am probably best known for… |
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My regard for others |
My strength of purpose |
My Logical thinking |
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| 23. When I face more stress that I can handle I generally… |
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Pray or seek advice |
Get things under control myself |
Analyze all my options |
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| 24. I get people to cooperate by… |
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Creating an atmosphere of harmony |
Persuasion & a willingness to direct them |
Showing the logical steps of my plan |
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| 25. People that know me see me as… |
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Flexible, Adaptable |
Confident, Forceful |
Independant, Balanced |
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| 26. The secret of being successful with people is being seen as… |
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Compassionate |
Confident |
Resourceful |
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| 27. I would like to be described as… |
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Sociable, Loyal |
Direct, Competitive |
Intelligent, Analytical |
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| 28. My weakness is to… |
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Believe what people say |
Dominate a conversation |
Over analyze a situation |
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| 29. When I meet someone for the first time, I formulate an opinion by… |
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How I feel |
By what I see & hear |
Analysis |
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| 30. I hate being seen as being… |
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A push over, Weak |
Stubborn, Arrogant |
Perfectionist |
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| 31. In a relationship I want to be… |
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Needed |
Admired |
Respected |

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